You may have been called to pastor a church where a leading sheep has a child living in adultery. You don’t want to hurt dad or mom (even if they had a weak stand, it’s not their fault the child is sinning). Nor do you want to (positively or negatively) do that which may hinder the child from getting right with God. You need holy wisdom. Wisdom on how to be friendly, without them thinking you approve. And wisdom how to reach out to them but not in anyway hurt the purity of the church and its message of living above sin.
– eab, 5/24/17