Modesty

A holy man shouldn’t have to look quickly

away from a woman because her neck-line is too low, her helm too high or her outfit too clingy. “Well, you just have a dirty mind!” If your dad/husband hasn’t told you, allow me (happily married man of 55yrs, father of 52yrs, “gramp” of 26yrs, & great grandfather of 2yrs) to tell you, all normal men are sexually tempted. You should NOT make it harder for us. Allow us to converse with you at bank, grocery, county office, etc. and walk away without the memory of what a glance told us.

We men want you to wear clothing showing you’re a woman but so worn that it also shows you’re a lady.

– eab, 3/24/17

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Importance of Modesty

So you’ve gotten married

or left that “strict” school or had some other change in status and decided to leave the fuddy-duddy modesty rules of parents/others behind. Allow a word of caution. All that was labeled “old fashioned” was not good. Period. However, all that is “old fashioned” is not bad. Period. A mere change in status does NOT qualify you judge this. Pray (pray as you never have before) about modesty.

It’s more important than our half-naked society (even modern church) wants to admit.

– eab, 8/10/16

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